Day 4,459: Already Scared

Day 4,459: Already Scared

“Burgled” is a very funny word. We need to use it more often, I think. It feels very old school. In other news…I think my favorite song from K-Pop Demon Hunters is “What It Sounds Like.” Intensity plus. Much drama. “Golden” is what I’ve listened to the most, probably,...
Day 4,458: Seventy-Two

Day 4,458: Seventy-Two

They make the Hawaiian islands look so much closer to each other than they actually are. Like, I’m looking at a wall-mounted wooden sculpture of the islands right now, Big Island down at the bottom right, rising up and to the left all the way out to Kauai…and looking...
Day 4,457: Flossy Flossy

Day 4,457: Flossy Flossy

It feels a little different this time because my job—our job—is so clear: be here for the kids. Show up. Talk about her. Hold space. Love and praise them. Answer honestly and ask questions. Be patient. Most importantly, be there. The task of it calms me. It makes...
Day 4,456: Plus One

Day 4,456: Plus One

I never posted my Thanksgiving post. Just realized that tonight. Lol. So…I’ve been one day short for a while. Ooops. We spent the day with the kids. Played video games with Wolf. Went on a walk together. Ate food with Alastair and Jackie. Watched K-Pop Demon Hunters....
Day 4,454: Angelite

Day 4,454: Angelite

My friend passed today. She leaves behind three kids that I love with all my heart. Rest in peace, Cat. I love you, I’ll never forget you, and I will show up for your kids.